Hello,it is nice talking to strangers,don't you think so?Well,I love talking to strangers,getting to know them,striking a rapport with them,but some of us shun crowds,new faces,new situations,why?Because we are plagued by irrational fears.Why are we plagued by such irrational fears?Because we have made it a habit and habits, they say, die hard.
The fearful and the timid of the world say,'look before you leap'.Looking before leaping is of course necessary but once you have looked enough,stop looking and take the leap,without any fear or inhibitions,but do look at the fear,do not close your eyes to it,if you see an apprehension,an unreasonable fear glaring at you,make funny faces at it and believe me, it will either vanish into thin air or simply slink away like a frightened rabbit.
We are so busy looking at closed doors,closed avenues that in this self defeating preoccupation,we overlook the opening of new doors,new vistas,new horizons.Minutes,hours and days quickly fly by so why should we waste our time in need less looking!
If you have a sturdy self confidence(not bordering on vanity or a haughty over confidence)coupled with stead fast courage,garnished with buoyant enthusiasm,you need not look before you leap!If you have the the tenacity of purpose,a strong will power and are not fearful of stumbling blocks,rebuffs and cold shoulders,leap and do not shrink,leap, for your self confidence will always come to your rescue.In this intensely competitive world,if you start looking around before taking the plunge,someone else will win the race.So leap and spend less time thinking about what may happen.
No ifs and buts,these ifs and buts are merely excuses,they are speed breakers,initiative sappers,they will only make you hedge and haw, remember,be a part of the rat race but set your own conditions."Ifs" and"only ifs" should be vanished from your vocabulary.They are the crutches of the lazy laggards,the third raters,the couch potatoes,the procrastinators.They deprive yuo of your initiative,swindle you,rob you,plunder and destroy you!
The fearful and the timid of the world say,'look before you leap'.Looking before leaping is of course necessary but once you have looked enough,stop looking and take the leap,without any fear or inhibitions,but do look at the fear,do not close your eyes to it,if you see an apprehension,an unreasonable fear glaring at you,make funny faces at it and believe me, it will either vanish into thin air or simply slink away like a frightened rabbit.
We are so busy looking at closed doors,closed avenues that in this self defeating preoccupation,we overlook the opening of new doors,new vistas,new horizons.Minutes,hours and days quickly fly by so why should we waste our time in need less looking!
If you have a sturdy self confidence(not bordering on vanity or a haughty over confidence)coupled with stead fast courage,garnished with buoyant enthusiasm,you need not look before you leap!If you have the the tenacity of purpose,a strong will power and are not fearful of stumbling blocks,rebuffs and cold shoulders,leap and do not shrink,leap, for your self confidence will always come to your rescue.In this intensely competitive world,if you start looking around before taking the plunge,someone else will win the race.So leap and spend less time thinking about what may happen.
No ifs and buts,these ifs and buts are merely excuses,they are speed breakers,initiative sappers,they will only make you hedge and haw, remember,be a part of the rat race but set your own conditions."Ifs" and"only ifs" should be vanished from your vocabulary.They are the crutches of the lazy laggards,the third raters,the couch potatoes,the procrastinators.They deprive yuo of your initiative,swindle you,rob you,plunder and destroy you!
2 comments:
very rightly said, sir and it is beautifully framed!!!
This extract exhibits emphasis on self reliance...A tail,unwrapping of ur words,is an enchanting show of ur apt experience regarding the substential energy in a being...
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